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Women tired of sexual harassment and outside the network have found a way to deter troublesome: Advertising on the Internet for all to see details and see
Yinon surfer did not know why he puts himself. He Shitadt on Facebook one day and fell in the case of one's profile, Yael name. Yinon watched Profile pictures of the 25-year-old girl decided that she likes. Way to express his affection was sending a message in the email Facebook: "Want to fuck?", He wrote in short. Perhaps it was not the first time that such a blatant rudely turned totally foreign girl social networking. Applications of this kind, more or less extreme, are fought on women's enema. But it certainly was the first time having a reaction to the firm Yinon. Goren did not reply on Facebook stalker. Instead, she released her blog, where she calls herself Trish, a post that exposes it. "One sits, the name is Yinon *** (Excellent post full name - AL). Freighter life suddenly falls on the full weight. What do we do? Sending obscene message on Facebook a random girl." Want to fuck? "Simple, direct, little provocation. Achsahkofi fine - the message through. What do the client, Apaas, refuses to buy? ".Gore went on to describe post the behavior she was experiencing from men outside the crossover network the same stalkers who believe this is the way to communicate with a girl who do not understand that their behavior is on the verge of the criminal (if not beyond that sometimes.) "Take your sad verbal erection far away. Do not come near me, do not talk to me, do not turn to me," she wrote, and offered his blog readers contact information that Facebook stalker, whose full name back several times. When searching for his name on Google today - the first result obtained is published by the circle Twitter tweet with a link post in question.

Why do they allow themselves to facebook?
 
The girl's case occurred in May 2009. It now seems that he represents a trend intensified since the network: women fighting sexual harassment (outside network) using the Internet. A few months ago opened the site "I shouted," street harassment stories center. This year also opened Facebook group designed to warn women against harassing suitors Aubsibeim network, and includes screenshots of the messages they send."God wants to fuck, that broke me. That was the straw that broke the camel's back," says Goren, the decision to publish that post. "What he did was like walking in the street and pull out the cock. I have not encountered him before, he felt free to send me a message like that, like many who came before and after sending me these messages, some even more disturbing and detailed. I used the case of Yinon to talk about my feelings the phenomenon, and of course make it appear ridiculous. People do not understand what you say online equivalent that you'll do it any other public space. I think many of them do not do this link. None of these men would not say it to me on the street, the office , lift. So why the message on Facebook or invented - Marker coffee they allow themselves to say such things? ".That's what asking Liat there. For several months the director for the 36th year the Facebook group "frankly, fun to drink?", Which has 185 members (companies, mainly). One women's group warned second troubling the serial network. It is not just those who feel free to ask "Want to fuck?", But also users who send the same text courtship tens or hundreds of women, hoping to drop songs in all directions and finally something line. Trigger the opening of the group was when there had to fend off dozens of messages a user who offered her to know him. Although he is not interested in answering and later barred him access Thoughts - found it in her Inbox and again, with new accounts opened."It did not help that I wrote that I was asking him to stop because it bothers me," relates to. "At one point I got nervous publish slides - Feist of his text on Google buzz. I asked where who else got it, it turns out that there are such girls booty around cyber. Not only Facebook, but also invented - Marker coffee, for example. It seems to me that someone receives a legitimate Such mail will know that the person who sent the same thing to other girls that day, even if it is really just a nice guy just looking for love. "- There is an argument I give kills even those whose only trying to meet, woo, contact us. Someone wrote on the wall of the group "our thoughts and perhaps what is going on boys network, or at all? Try once to get a spouse alone without you start, then we'll talk."There: "It's just that people do not meet in Yedyet it cool, but you have to know where to draw the line. I do not think it's wrong to start with someone on Facebook, but I do against compulsion. May begin as long as it's done politely and tactfully. Continue Loatckercc the a woman after she told you not - it should not, even if you do not stain. If you have objections or ignore - continue on. to insist, and certainly do not harass Utnbel my mouth. "

A man will not understand this
 
To say the overwhelming majority of comments on the opening group were positive, there were those who argued that the group humiliating men and condescending. The group's name, kind of typical quote Lmteridnim, not understood by some visitors, who thought it was a group of girls waving at Merano outside patronizing about who is trying to start with. "Section of the glass, came to describe the attitude of stalkers, for which this girls' cup of course," explains there. "Boys never understand how hard it is to be a girl online. Even if Achiar in my profile in a social network that I was there for the purpose of networking and have a friend - it will not help. As a network all the time to deal with disturbing reports of blockages, and it does not always work. I'm still not what I call "Web maiden" - I for many years on, and remember how I was amazed I was getting e-mails bots my MySpace account. did not believe then that send me stuff like that - graphic descriptions with words I can not repeat. So I did not know the dark side of the grid, and slowly opened my eyes. Now I think, for example, the 13-year-old niece. She has a Facebook profile, she does not know or know what is happening. such a warning meant she Ulschmautah and to help them. It comes from a place of raising awareness and, it is also for all to see and see.Yael Goren also said that post published last year intended to warn disturbing is expected. "This post created a conversation on the subject, so it did the trick. There were many negative comments from people who did not related to that Yinon. They said I made him Outing not justified, written notice called private should stay there. There were also claims as" the invites applications Your conduct such style of your clothing. "Gadi Shimshon web man, for example, wrote on Twitter:" The dog put pictures, look at my tits, and a year and a half doing Outing who falls into the trap of its provocations and you Agoaym enthusiastically. Just disgusted. "I was very surprised that. This claim I'm not willing to accept, certainly not in relation to Facebook. Facebook is supposed to be a very personal space. All of Facebook means that exclusiveness, the ability to be linked to whoever you want to be linked. That's why I feel there face much more harmful. "Blog hosting site "Blogali" (closed for now) which hosted blog Goren also could not digest the post, blocking access to it, probably from the fear get involved in legal action. Post subject turned to a lawyer contacted Gore threatened such action, but ultimately did nothing about it. Liat there also had to cope with the demands of removing threats from stalkers exposed to the Facebook group she manages. The serial stalker who sent her messages, followed by open group resented publicly release the correspondence, said slandering him to the "laws passed Facebook Adventure lawsuit."

Sometimes it helps, sometimes it releases steam
 
It is unclear whether this action led to the same stalker change his ways, but the pressure lever efficiency evidence that Facebook already exist, even when the harassment occurred "in the real world, outside of cyber. June 2009 sexual harassment scandal exploded Reef pub - the bar in Tel - Aviv (recently closed). My client opened a pub Osnat Skublinsky Facebook group condemning manager Ran Oren, arguing that bothered her sexually several times with a touch of her body. Two weeks after the case came Skublinsky pub Oren asked to confront his actions. He chose to ignore her, causing her to break the tools to publish the public contention, network."I'm troubled by Ran Oren" She called the group launched on Facebook, joined dozens of companies, some of whom complained of similar behavior towards them from a pub. "After three caress unwanted buttocks in one evening, even after hearing that Amy violence and body parts of many women, some of them minors, were caught, aches Onngeo uninvited," she wrote there, "and he answered in reply, 'I'm a man, I have desires, woman Otherwise confronted him, I decided to boycott the Ran Oren and reef - Raf. who joins troubled but not necessarily heard about similar cases and expresses solidarity, "reads the description of the group.
About a week after the opening of Pine Lskublinsky group called, apologized and agreed to meet her face. And later published as a letter of apology Facebook group which publicly admitted his actions. In return, download the network group after several weeks. "I could file a complaint with the police, but decided to go for another option that the goal was first of all to stop, not go to jail," explained Skublinsky the interview given by then the operation newspaper town. "
The site "I shouted" that was established last summer continues a similar line, allowing Lgolsutio publish stories of sexual harassment by means of reports, stories and pictures. "We are here to break the myth that shouts, whistles, sending arms and other forms of sexual assault" easy "are a social norm that women's standard price, or / women community Haltaab"ak pay when they are in a public space," reads the site, which You can find many descriptions of situations in which women were harassed on various entertainment places. Because this is a non-harassment online, they do not include specific identification of the unknown stalker. Therefore, the site serves basically as a form of presentation of the subject and what it can to unload the troubled rock Utaskolan maintain a kind of female solidarity.Liat also to tell her Facebook group (which also recognize the troubling) was intended in part for "Sistrhud" and mutual support. However, there are also men in the group, and to encourage the inclusion: "Come and join the group. Clean the bad name you spend other," she exclaims.

Small price to pay?
 
The last episode about the outing Lmteridnim came from the least expected. At the time when the debate took place on the reef bar Ran Oren Uziel was expressed throughout the network against facebook group opened against "trial" conducted by the light on the network. Published this week in his blog post is all screenshots of Facebook correspondence between women and men that bothered them. Uziel not blur the disturbing names or their pictures (in one case even revealed a number of troubling, she offered to send a girl to sleep with him).Even if this post is effective in achieving goal of deterrence, the impression is Uziel Post it mainly to laugh at the aesthetics of the content (being tongue-tied, humor and various filthy despicable tactics.) He mixed between the harassment to everything from relatively innocent message like "Can we be friends?" Go even sent someone from a guy who met her at the event and now want to start with. Post sexual desire - Israeli Twitter community debate, there has been criticized for parading the alleged disturbing disturbing. Uziel defended the publication. "No published rumors, only acts. Amazes me that people think that what they do not pass on the network," he wrote, adding, "I present phenomenon, not some accusations. If you do embarrassing things in public - the Internet is a public place - you're ready to accept the fire. ""Alon's post were also a few screenshots that should have been included there and that I would give them," says Liat there, published by the group post its link. "But the bottom line - it raised the awareness of this issue, and perhaps help someplace against serial stalkers. The victims of his action has created is a small price to pay," she states.Yael Goren actually not sure who was driving the day as it had done so, Achspersama the post with the full name of the stalker. "Today I was not in a hurry to make this outing. I think I better understand the damage these things people have to see if it really comes to a person. I'm not sure I know where to draw the line, and one that discretion should do with herself. the cases themselves and I think we should get out as much as possible to raise the issue ads, but not sure about the identity of the stalker. Once I was convinced it was my job and everyone who writes a blog network. Today it's hard for me with the thought of taking the responsibility to punish people. "